II Timothy 1:6 “Wherefore I put thee in rememberance that thou stir up the gift of God”. That gift of God is the fire of God. Without the stirring that comes from the Holy Spirit which fuels the fire, our gifts are rendered useless. Every gift of the Lord is for YOU, not only for “yours” (your children, your friends, etc.). Pray for the Lord to stir that fire in you. USE the gift the Lord has given you to bless others, for that is your gift to the Lord.